Wistful in Toronto.

"Toronto is a metropolitan, multicultural, dynamic city in which people are notorious for talking wistfully of living somewhere else." [source] This rings quite true for most of the people I've encountered during my years in this city. But I wonder if the city itself is the cause (e.g., Too many potholes on the street? Not enough subway lines for efficient transport? Too mush slush in winter? Not enough opportunities for creative types?), or maybe it's the culture, or as some might argue, the lack of a clear and dominant one? And is it truly a wish to live somewhere else permanently, or does Toronto simply inspire us to go out and travel the world?

Two things that make living in a big city so great.

1. Lots of convenient sources to go buy fresh fruits and vegetables. There's something quite inspiring when browsing through the piles of colourful items -- partly a reminder of what beautiful things the earth can provide us, but for me the appeal is less philosophical and more gastronomic; I taste all the selection on display with my eyes, pondering what great meal/salad/dessert/snack concoctions I can come up with. It not only inspires the stomach, but also the brain. I come home from these encounters with fresh produce with the urge to do something creative or constructive, and not just related to food!

2. The after-work rush downtown. Not the morning rush, when many might be tired-eyed, harried, and dreading the workday ahead. Rather, I like watching people leave work downtown after 5PM. Some look relieved, some look happy, quite a few slow down their pace to enjoy the afternoon sun, many are reconnecting with friends, and even some couples emerge, holding hands while walking home. It is at this time of day that I most enjoy going to the local coffee shop and finding a seat at the window so that I can observe my favourite subjects walk by. I suppose that I'm partly attracted to watching this crowd as I'm not part of the "corporate" world myself, so it's almost as if I'm the visitor at the zoo enjoying the view of the "wildlife" passing by outside. And they're quite a handsome bunch, though of course I'll admit that I have a strong bias for the female of this species. In fact, I really like catching them smile. Smiles, as you might know, are quite rare in an urban setting. However, they seem to occur with increased frequency during this particular time of the day. If one is lucky, one will catch a woman smiling or laughing with her friends, or on the phone, and randomly turn her head towards you, the attentive observer behind the window. For that brief second, before her head turns back, you can share in her moment of happiness.